Tuesday, January 29, 2019

unedited for 100 days. Day 6

There are a few cultural losses (well let's be real, way more than a few- but I only have 10 minutes) that I would like to bring back. All of these cute little things we used to do have been lost because of the cell phone.
The first one that comes to mind is the act of physically getting out of your car to knock on the door and let your friend know you are there to pick them up. Even better, bring an umbrella if it's raining. I'm actually calling myself out. Just last week I picked up a girlfriend to go out to dinner and I totally sat in my car like a lazy little nerd while I texted her that I had arrived. Next time I'm getting my ass out of the car like a proper human being.
Next, I'd like to bring back the art of standing in line. I see three viable options while in this situation; A) look around B) talk to someone nearby or C) daydream. Why oh why have we become so uncomfortable in these moments. The message we send to one another when we pull our cell phone out while standing in line is this: 'I have more important things to do with my time than be standing in this lame line with you'. I vow to keep my phone in my pocket while standing in line- unless it is to double check my grocery list, or check for emergency phone calls, or instagram notifications, or the weather.... ONLY kidding. No mobile phone in line. Done.
Lastly, I would like to bring back the actual real life birthday card, in the mail! Again, calling myself out. I've always been terrible at planning ahead when it comes to USPS. By the time I think to send the card, I realize it wont make it in time and instead justify my shortcomings with a long text and some very exciting emojis (heart, party hat, balloon, salsa dancer... kiss kiss kiss). If I spend some time writing down all the important birthdays in my planner, I might be able to pull this off. Friends be patient with me.
Anyone want to join me?

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